楼主说的真好

成熟是被挫折磨出来的，在冰火世界那就是被逼出来的

看到标题唱出来了= =
how many roads must a man walk down,before you call him a man

早点残废是成熟的捷径。

应该把标题的男字去掉
其实人都要走很多路才能成熟

要成熟先断手

lz说得真好~
苦难是成熟的必经之路。
很多人的苦难是肢体上的残缺，还有人的苦难是失去挚爱，有人的苦难是故孤独，有人的苦难是死亡。肉体上的痛苦和心灵上的摧残都成就了饱含辛酸的成熟，最最可悲的是，无论你是否想要变得成熟，都没有任何选择的余地。
冰与火之成长的烦恼……

当一个男人懂得了责任与家的时候 他就成熟了（不是我文艺 只是最近心情差）
家庭，荣誉，责任

人生不比歌谣，总有一天你会失望。

必须要失去点什么，才能学会成熟吧，比如詹姆失去了右手

How many roads must a man walk down 　　Before you call him a man? 　　Yes, 'n' how many seas must a white dove sail 　　Before she sleeps in the sand? 　　Yes, 'n' how many times must the cannon balls fly 　　Before they're forever banned? 　　The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind, 　　The answer is blowin' in the wind. 　　How many times must a man look up 　　Before he can see the sky? 　　Yes, 'n' how many ears must one man have 　　Before he can hear people cry? 　　Yes, 'n' how many deaths will it take till he knows 　　That too many people have died? 　　The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind, 　　The answer is blowin' in the wind. 　　How many years can a mountain exist 　　Before it's washed to the sea? 　　Yes, 'n' how many years can some people exist 　　Before they're allowed to be free? 　　Yes, 'n' how many times can a man turn his head, 　　Pretending he just doesn't see? 　　The answer, my friend, is blowin' in the wind, 　　The answer is blowin' in the wind.

所谓成熟与否不是非此即彼，Jaime再断只手或者断了脖子也不能变成他老爸，因为他骨子里理想主义和骑士精神是去不掉的，这也是他的可爱之处

想起了一首老歌：
Blowin in the wind
How many roads must a man walk down, before they call him a man?